{"id":25885,"date":"2012-12-04T23:38:56","date_gmt":"2012-12-05T05:38:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/?p=25885"},"modified":"2012-12-05T15:01:27","modified_gmt":"2012-12-05T21:01:27","slug":"grieve-and-grieve-well-by-kyle-lake","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/2012\/12\/04\/grieve-and-grieve-well-by-kyle-lake\/","title":{"rendered":"Grieve Well"},"content":{"rendered":"<h6>&#160;<\/h6>\n<h6><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0921.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_0921\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_0921\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0921_thumb.jpg\" width=\"421\" height=\"485\" \/><\/a>&#160; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0941-001.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_0941-001\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_0941-001\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0941-001_thumb.jpg\" width=\"427\" height=\"485\" \/><\/a><\/h6>\n<p>This weekend Mike and I had the honor to travel out to California to celebrate the life of our dear friend, Curt Ziemke.&#160; Here are some pictures of our journey to wish him farewell!&#160; <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1408-001.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_1408-001\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_1408-001\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1408-001_thumb.jpg\" width=\"880\" height=\"612\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Since the trip was last minute (just like it was when I went out two weeks ago), we had a layover in Phoenix to keep it affordable\u2026 which worked out great 3 out of the 4 travel days to Cali this month\u2026 save the best for last!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1411-001.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_1411-001\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_1411-001\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1411-001_thumb.jpg\" width=\"273\" height=\"385\" \/><\/a>&#160;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0901.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_0901\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_0901\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0901_thumb.jpg\" width=\"596\" height=\"385\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I loved these pretty glass flowers in a Phoenix airport gift shop but just didn\u2019t have it in me to protect one all the way home, so I took a picture instead!&#160; :)&#160; We stayed with the Ziemke\u2019s great friends, Mark and Kelli Hunter.&#160; Their house was so pretty and felt so warm and inviting.&#160; I loved this HUGE Charlie Brown Christmas tree sticking up over their neighbor\u2019s roof in their back yard.&#160; They have the coolest varieties of trees here! <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1462.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_1462\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_1462\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1462_thumb.jpg\" width=\"880\" height=\"561\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Friday night, we ate Mexican food by the beach!&#160; It was beautiful, and our evening was relaxing just being together!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0905.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_0905\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_0905\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0905_thumb.jpg\" width=\"880\" height=\"550\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Saturday, we got to both grieve our loss and celebrate the life of Curt, father to these great kids; Cayden (17), Clarissa (19), and Corbin (13)!&#160; He was the best!<\/p>\n<h6><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0909.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_0909\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_0909\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0909_thumb.jpg\" width=\"471\" height=\"590\" \/><\/a>&#160;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0914.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_0914\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_0914\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0914_thumb.jpg\" width=\"391\" height=\"590\" \/><\/a><\/h6>\n<p>Clarissa with me and Zachary.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0926.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_0926\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_0926\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0926_thumb.jpg\" width=\"880\" height=\"557\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Cindy and her awesome employees at American City Pest and Termite, Inc. who knew and loved Curt so much!<\/p>\n<h6><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0932.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_0932\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_0932\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0932_thumb.jpg\" width=\"463\" height=\"332\" \/><\/a>&#160;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1420-001.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_1420-001\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_1420-001\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1420-001_thumb.jpg\" width=\"397\" height=\"332\" \/><\/a><\/h6>\n<p>Curt had the best friends in high school!&#160; Here is a picture of Cindy with some of their wives.&#160; So sweet!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0939.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_0939\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_0939\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_0939_thumb.jpg\" width=\"880\" height=\"579\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The Ziemke ladies\u2026 so beautiful!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1422.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_1422\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_1422\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1422_thumb.jpg\" width=\"507\" height=\"346\" \/><\/a>&#160;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1430.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_1430\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_1430\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1430_thumb.jpg\" width=\"346\" height=\"346\" \/><\/a> <\/p>\n<p>Toasting to Curt and enjoying being together, just as Curt would have wanted!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1469.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_1469\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_1469\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1469_thumb.jpg\" width=\"880\" height=\"660\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The weekend was overcast, rainy and dreary\u2026 totally fitting for the occasion and how we felt.&#160; However, it was cleansing and refreshing too!&#160; I felt really connected to our maker and his love for us as we were hurting.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1467.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_1467\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_1467\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1467_thumb.jpg\" width=\"448\" height=\"314\" \/><\/a>&#160;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1438.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_1438\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_1438\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1438_thumb.jpg\" width=\"418\" height=\"312\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>After the most delicious, hand squeezed OJ on the planet, Cindy and Corbin took us to the airport and we said our goodbyes\u2026 until next time!&#160; I enjoyed taking scenery pics this trip\u2026 with a layover in Phoenix, being so low to the mountains was breathtaking. <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1433.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_1433\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_1433\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1433_thumb.jpg\" width=\"880\" height=\"561\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m always so amazed at the miles and miles of perfect crop designs.&#160; I never stop staring out of the window once we are out of the clouds.&#160; It\u2019s fascinating to me.&#160; People are cool!<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1442.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_1442\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_1442\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1442_thumb.jpg\" width=\"880\" height=\"543\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Check out these houses surrounding this lake!&#160; We were somewhere over Phoenix.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1414.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_1414\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_1414\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1414_thumb.jpg\" width=\"880\" height=\"645\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I loved that we were flying on top of the white clouds but the mountains could still be seen.&#160; I took these pictures, mostly for the girls to see what it looks like but am glad I have the pictures because this was an emotional flight that I\u2019ll never forget.<\/p>\n<h6>&#160;<\/h6>\n<h6><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1445.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_1445\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_1445\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1445_thumb.jpg\" width=\"432\" height=\"432\" \/><\/a>&#160;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1449.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_1449\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_1449\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1449_thumb.jpg\" width=\"431\" height=\"431\" \/><\/a><\/h6>\n<p>After a 4 hour layover due to a delayed first flight and missed second flight, we were ready to get home!&#160; We stretched a good meal and conversation as far as we could, but 4 hours is a long time!&#160; When we saw this play land, that just topped it all off; made us miss the girls even more.&#160; We couldn\u2019t get out of there quick enough!&#160; <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1455.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" style=\"background-image: none; border-right-width: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; display: inline; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; padding-top: 0px\" title=\"IMG_1455\" border=\"0\" alt=\"IMG_1455\" src=\"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/IMG_1455_thumb.jpg\" width=\"880\" height=\"495\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>On the way home, I saw this high heel made out of lights on a lake and knew Noelle would love to see that!&#160; We had a long day of traveling, delays, and missing our layover, but it was so worth it to say farewell and celebrate our friend!&#160; We love you, Curt!&#160; Always will.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#160; &#160; This weekend Mike and I had the honor to travel out to California to celebrate the life of our dear friend, Curt Ziemke.&#160; Here are some pictures of our journey to wish him farewell!&#160; Since the trip was last minute (just like it was when I went out two weeks ago), we had [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25885"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25885"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25885\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25890,"href":"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25885\/revisions\/25890"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25885"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25885"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pondfam.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25885"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}